When you’re in a won­der­ful new rela­tion­ship and bliss­fully dat­ing, everything’s embraced with goo-goo eyes and coo­ing. After mar­riage and years down the line, it may become a dif­fer­ent expe­ri­ence. Yes, you (hope­fully) still love your spouse, but often feel like the romance has been del­e­gated to “spe­cial occa­sions”. The bib­li­cal truth is, the romance is there and wait­ing to be rekin­dled. Here are some bib­li­cal ways to reignite the pas­sion in your marriage: 

1.      Lov­ing our spouse –There is free­dom in lov­ing your spouse with­out the expec­ta­tions the world places on you. The believer must kill self-centeredness and rad­i­cally trans­form their life; shift­ing the focus from our­selves to God and in doing so we will aspire to love oth­ers as Christ does, uncon­di­tion­ally. This does not mean merely to prac­tice an ascetic self-discipline. It is a very strong word, mean­ing, “to kill”. Colos­sians 3:5 says we are to “mor­tify there­fore (our) mem­bers, which are on the earth” (KJV). Con­tinue read­ing →