Find Out What It Takes To Build True Intimacy

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Thank you for vis­it­ing my Blog to read today’s post about find­ing out what it takes to build true inti­macy. Thou­sands of authors have pon­tif­i­cated over this topic for a price that could eas­ily rid you of the twenty-dollar bill stashed in the secret hid­ing place of your wal­let for “emer­gen­cies”. 

The answer to the ques­tion is plain, sim­ple, and it’s FREE. Trans­parency. Yep, that one word sums up how to build true intimacy. Psalm 32:2 points to inter­per­sonal trans­parency as a source of hap­pi­ness. We read, “Blessed (happy) is the man whose sin the LORD does not count against him and in whose spirit is no deceit.”

Secrets are a sign that some­thing is wrong. When we need to hide a twenty, hide a rela­tion­ship, hide a habit, hide any­thing, we should feel a check in our Spirit. Trans­parency with God (and oth­ers) leads us to con­fess our sin and ask for for­give­ness, which works toward rid­ding us of the spirit of deceit. When the con­scious is clean, and we are right with God and those around us, there is noth­ing to hide. Con­tinue read­ing

May I Have This Dance

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When my chil­dren were tod­dlers and a Motown song would play on the radio at home I’d often ask, “May I have this dance?” My son or daugh­ter would accept with a gig­gle and I’d stop my house­work scoop him or her up in my arms and we’d twirl and do dips through­out the house. Actu­ally, I’d do all the danc­ing but their par­tic­i­pa­tion made it joy­ful. All they had to do was say yes. I did the rest. As they got a lit­tle older I’d ask and my son or daugh­ter would run to me and place his or her feet on top of mine. We’d Waltz or Tango to Motown through­out the house.

 

Last night the Lord brought that mem­ory to mind and I felt as though He was say­ing to me, May I have this dance? It’s tempt­ing to take the lead, but I believe God was remind­ing me He is the one who leads. While my chil­dren or I could have danced to Motown alone the expe­ri­ence was made richer because we did it together. They trusted me not to drop them when they were tod­dlers and not to step on their toes when they were older. How much more is our Heav­enly Father mind­ful of our joy and safety? Yet I some­times take the lead and dance myself right into a wall.

 

We’re never too big for Abba’s arms. We’re never too big to fol­low in His footsteps.

 

They send forth their chil­dren as a flock; their lit­tle ones dance about. – Job 21:11

 

 

God bless,

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Will You Help?

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The Hunger Site (link is to the right under Help­ing Resources) could use your sup­port. As I clicked on my daily reminder I felt led to specif­i­cally ask my friends to help. Here’s all you need to do…if you haven’t already.  

  1. Click on: The Hunger Site link.
  2. Click on: Click Here to Give-it’s FREE!
  3. Click on: Get a daily reminder.

 In three easy steps you’ll have made a huge difference.

A gen­er­ous man will pros­per; he who refreshes oth­ers will him­self be refreshed. – Proverbs 11:25

  Thank you and God bless

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What Do You Think?

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 Seman­tics or not…that is the ques­tion. If a fol­lower of Jesus says he or she is seek­ing God’s will, is that putting the prin­ci­ples before the prin­ci­ple maker? I have found time and again when I set my mind to fol­low God’s prin­ci­pals with­out first seek­ing the prin­ci­pal maker…I stumble.

 Think about it: If the prin­ci­pals are what are sought first, who gets the glory, the prin­ci­pal maker, or the prin­ci­pal fol­lower? Con­tinue read­ing

Let’s Go To Church Together

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I was blessed by this mes­sage from my pas­tor. The pod­cast is about thirty min­utes long.

 

“Life of the Beloved\” Pt 1 by Travis Twyman Text from 1 John

 If you do not have Quick Time you may use this link to down­load and install directly from Apple.

http://www.apple.com/quicktime/download/

God bless,

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